{"id":4082,"date":"2025-08-21T08:15:23","date_gmt":"2025-08-21T12:15:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/yfc.ca\/montreal\/?post_type=docs&#038;p=4082"},"modified":"2025-08-21T13:05:19","modified_gmt":"2025-08-21T17:05:19","password":"","slug":"high-conflict","status":"publish","type":"docs","link":"https:\/\/yfc.ca\/montreal\/r\/high-conflict\/","title":{"rendered":"HIGH CONFLICT"},"content":{"rendered":"\r\n<section class=\"y-intro guten-block \">\r\n\t<div class=\"y-intro--upper\">\r\n\t\t<div class=\"grid-narrow\">\r\n\t\t\t<div class=\"y-intro--upper--row\">\r\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"y-intro--upper--left\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"y-intro--title\">High Conflict<\/h2>\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\n\n\n\n\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"y-intro--content\"><p>Do you feel stuck in arguments or tension that never seems to end? You are not alone. High conflict in families or relationships can be exhausting and discouraging. 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