{"id":744,"date":"2021-06-28T11:50:00","date_gmt":"2021-06-28T15:50:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/yfc.ca\/resources\/?post_type=docs&#038;p=744"},"modified":"2022-01-05T13:59:16","modified_gmt":"2022-01-05T18:59:16","password":"","slug":"creating-conversation","status":"publish","type":"docs","link":"https:\/\/yfc.ca\/resources\/resources\/creating-conversation\/","title":{"rendered":"Creating Conversations Helpsheet"},"content":{"rendered":"\r\n\r\n<section class=\"y-banner  guten-block\">\r\n\t<div class=\"y-banner--container\">\r\n\t\t<div class=\"y-banner--inner\">\r\n\t\t\t<div class=\"y-banner--inner--bg left\" style=\"background-image: url(https:\/\/yfc.ca\/resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/55\/2021\/06\/photo-1529939620248-273fd31a7cdf.jpg);\"><\/div>\r\n\t\t\t<div class=\"grid-narrow\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t<\/div>\r\n\t<\/section>\r\n\n\n<section class=\"y-columned-content white one left  guten-block\" >\r\n\t<div class=\"grid-narrow\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\t<h3 class=\"y-columned-content--title y-color-responsive-text\">Creating Conversations Helpsheet<\/h3>\r\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"y-columned-content--inner\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"y-columned-content--column y-color-responsive-text\"><p>Face-to-face conversation is not the preferred type of conversation for teens. Only 1\/3 of teens would rather have a face-to-face conversations as opposed to a digital conversation.<\/p>\n<p>Face-to-face communication is an artform that many youth have yet to learn. Eye contact is a vital part of communication that builds connection and empathy. Over the last 20 years signs of empathy in young people have dropped by 40%.<\/p>\n<p>In person conversation is meant to be natural, therefore there is no need to overthink and plan out everything you would say like you would in a text or email.<\/p>\n<p>If you find yourself in a face-to-face conversation and don&#8217;t know what to say remember F.O.R.M.:<\/p>\n<div class=\"page\" title=\"Page 1\">\n<div class=\"section\">\n<div class=\"layoutArea\">\n<div class=\"column\">\n<ul>\n<li>Family (\u201cTell me a bit about the people who live in your house.\u201d);<\/li>\n<li>Obligations (\u201cWhat are the things you get no choice about doing each week?\u201d);<\/li>\n<li>Recreation (\u201cIf you had $1000 to spend doing something fun, how would you spend it?\u201d);<\/li>\n<li>Motivation (&#8221;Why is ____ important to you?\u201d).<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Any of these topics can help carry the conversation past any awkwardness.<\/p>\n<p>Show the person that you are interested in what they have to say. Give them your full attention, and do not resort back to your device. Push yourself past your comfort zone. You got this!<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p><strong>For more information and to download a printable pdf helpsheet on creating conversations:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><a class=\"button primary\" href=\"https:\/\/d7bedef3-2f91-4408-81b2-f941b1e75eae.filesusr.com\/ugd\/2c6400_d6b6271b5fb746b78288091d11c55810.pdf\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Click here<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lifeteams.ca\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-840 size-medium\" src=\"https:\/\/yfc.ca\/resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/55\/2021\/06\/2020_lifeteams_logo_YUtag-63-1-300x96.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"96\" srcset=\"https:\/\/yfc.ca\/resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/55\/2021\/06\/2020_lifeteams_logo_YUtag-63-1-300x96.jpg 300w, https:\/\/yfc.ca\/resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/55\/2021\/06\/2020_lifeteams_logo_YUtag-63-1-1024x328.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/yfc.ca\/resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/55\/2021\/06\/2020_lifeteams_logo_YUtag-63-1-768x246.jpg 768w, https:\/\/yfc.ca\/resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/55\/2021\/06\/2020_lifeteams_logo_YUtag-63-1-1536x492.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/yfc.ca\/resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/55\/2021\/06\/2020_lifeteams_logo_YUtag-63-1-2048x656.jpg 2048w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>At Lifeteams School of Youth Outreach our mandate is unique: to build a force of young urban missionaries who step into the world of marginalized and vulnerable youth across Canada with the life-changing love of Jesus.<\/p>\n<p>Visit their website for more information on Lifeteams and their resources:<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a class=\"button primary\" href=\"https:\/\/www.lifeteams.ca\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Lifeteams.ca<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t<\/div>\r\n<\/section>\r\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Face-to-face conversation is not the preferred type of conversation for teens&#8230; If you find yourself in a face-to-face conversation and don&#8217;t know what to say remember F.O.R.M&#8230;.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":49,"featured_media":591,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"doc_category":[13],"doc_tag":[39,17,19,21],"class_list":["post-744","docs","type-docs","status-publish","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","doc_category-leadership-development","doc_tag-lifeteams","doc_tag-youth-pastor-resources","doc_tag-parent-resources","doc_tag-youth-resources"],"acf":[],"year_month":"2026-04","word_count":0,"total_views":"2225","reactions":{"happy":"0","normal":"0","sad":"0"},"author_info":{"name":"resources","author_nicename":"resources","author_url":"https:\/\/yfc.ca\/resources\/author\/resources\/"},"doc_category_info":[{"term_name":"Leadership Development","term_url":"https:\/\/yfc.ca\/resources\/resource-category\/leadership-development\/"}],"doc_tag_info":[{"term_name":"Lifeteams","term_url":"https:\/\/yfc.ca\/resources\/resource-tag\/lifeteams\/"},{"term_name":"Resources for Leaders","term_url":"https:\/\/yfc.ca\/resources\/resource-tag\/youth-pastor-resources\/"},{"term_name":"Resources for Parents","term_url":"https:\/\/yfc.ca\/resources\/resource-tag\/parent-resources\/"},{"term_name":"Resources for Youth","term_url":"https:\/\/yfc.ca\/resources\/resource-tag\/youth-resources\/"}],"knowledge_base_info":[],"knowledge_base_slug":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/yfc.ca\/resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/docs\/744","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/yfc.ca\/resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/docs"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/yfc.ca\/resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/docs"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yfc.ca\/resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/49"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yfc.ca\/resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=744"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/yfc.ca\/resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/docs\/744\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yfc.ca\/resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/591"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/yfc.ca\/resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=744"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"doc_category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yfc.ca\/resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/doc_category?post=744"},{"taxonomy":"doc_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yfc.ca\/resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/doc_tag?post=744"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}