{"id":2621,"date":"2026-10-12T06:00:00","date_gmt":"2026-10-12T10:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/yfc.ca\/resources\/?p=2621"},"modified":"2026-09-28T19:46:13","modified_gmt":"2026-09-28T23:46:13","slug":"epray-ep-75-lectio-divina-gratitude","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/yfc.ca\/resources\/2026\/10\/12\/epray-ep-75-lectio-divina-gratitude\/","title":{"rendered":"ePray | Ep. 75 Lectio Divina: Gratitude"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<a name=\"top\"><\/a>\n\n\n\r\n<section class=\"y-intro guten-block \">\r\n\t<div class=\"y-intro--upper\">\r\n\t\t<div class=\"grid-narrow\">\r\n\t\t\t<div class=\"y-intro--upper--row\">\r\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"y-intro--upper--left\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"y-intro--title\">ePray | Lectio Divina: Ep. 75 Gratitude<\/h2>\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\n\n\n\n\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"y-intro--content\"><p>Listen to the episode here, or read the transcript below &#8211; and don&#8217;t forget to tune in weekly!<\/p>\n<audio class=\"wp-audio-shortcode\" id=\"audio-2621-1\" preload=\"none\" style=\"width: 100%;\" controls=\"controls\"><source type=\"audio\/mpeg\" src=\"https:\/\/yfc.ca\/resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/55\/2026\/09\/October-12.mp3?_=1\" \/><a href=\"https:\/\/yfc.ca\/resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/55\/2026\/09\/October-12.mp3\">https:\/\/yfc.ca\/resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/55\/2026\/09\/October-12.mp3<\/a><\/audio>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">ePray | Episode 75| October 12, 2026<br \/>\n<strong>Lectio Divina: Gratitude<\/strong><br \/>\nWith M\u00e9lodie-Joy Desjardins &#8211; Youth Unlimited Montreal<\/p>\n<\/div>\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"y-intro--buttons\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<a class=\"button primary\" href=\"https:\/\/yfc.ca\/resources\/epray\/\" target=\"_self\">Return to ePray<\/a>\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<a class=\"button secondary\" href=\"#read\" target=\"_self\">Read Transcript<\/a>\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"y-intro--upper--right\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"y-c-img extend\">\n\t\t<div class=\"y-c-img--extend short\" style=\"background-image: url(https:\/\/yfc.ca\/resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/55\/2026\/09\/gratitude.jpg);\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"y-c-img--contain\">\n\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/yfc.ca\/resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/55\/2026\/09\/gratitude.jpg\" alt=\"\" \/>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\n\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t<\/div>\r\n\r\n\t<div class=\"y-intro--lower\">\r\n\t\t<div class=\"grid-narrow\">\r\n\t\t\t<div class=\"y-intro--lower--left\">\r\n\r\n\t\t\t\t\r\n\t\t\t\t\r\n\t\t\t\t\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\r\n\t\t\t\t\r\n\t\t\t\t\r\n\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t<\/div>\r\n\r\n<\/section>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n\n\n\n<a name=\"read\"><\/a>\n\n\n<section class=\"y-columned-content white one center  guten-block\" >\r\n\t<div class=\"grid-narrow\">\r\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"y-columned-content--inner\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"y-columned-content--column y-color-responsive-text\"><p style=\"text-align: left;\"><strong>Lectio Divina: Gratitude<br \/>\nDate: October 12, 2026<br \/>\nScripture: Colossians 3:15-17<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><b>M\u00e9lodie-Joy Desjardins<\/b><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><strong>Part 1: Inward Focus<\/strong><\/p>\n<div style=\"text-align: left;\">\n<div dir=\"auto\">Welcome\u2026 I\u2019m so glad you\u2019re here today.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Before we begin, take a moment to settle your heart and mind and become aware of God\u2019spresence with you.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">If you&#8217;re comfortable, close your eyes.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Take a slow, deep breath in&#8230; And slowly breathe out\u2026<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Once more\u2026 breathe in\u2026 And as you breathe out, allow your body to release some of the tension you may be carrying.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Just be still for a moment\u2026 and know that God is here.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><b>Our theme this month is gratitude.<\/b><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">When we think about gratitude, our minds may naturally go to the things God has given us\u2014the prayers He has answered, the ways He has provided, or the blessings we can name.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">But today, our Scripture reading invites us to consider gratitude from another perspective:<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><b>What about our gratitude for one another?<\/b><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">The people God has placed in our lives can be some of His greatest gifts\u2014and sometimes relationships can also be difficult.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">In Colossians 3, Paul speaks to people learning how to live together as one body. He calls them toward compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, patience, forgiveness, and love.\u00a0 And then, in our passage today, he tells them to let the peace of Christ rule in their hearts\u2014and to be thankful.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Let&#8217;s pray. <b>O Holy Spirit, quiet our hearts before You. As we listen to Your Word, show us the people <\/b><b>we may need to see differently. Where frustration, hurt, or anger has taken up too much<\/b><b>space, let the peace of Christ rule. Teach us to see one another with gratitude and to <\/b><b>respond with Your love. Amen.<\/b><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Our Scripture today is <b>Colossians 3:15\u201317<\/b>.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">As you listen, notice how often Paul connects the way we live with one another to peace and gratitude.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\" style=\"text-align: center;\"><em><span class=\"s2\"><b>\u2018<\/b><\/span>And let the peace that comes from Christ rule in your hearts. For as members of one body you are called to live in peace. And always be thankful. Let the message aboutChrist, in all its richness, fill your lives. Teach and counsel each other with all the wisdom he gives. Sing psalms and hymns and spiritual songs to God with thankful hearts. And whatever you do or say, do it as a representative of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks through him to God the Father.<b>\u2019<\/b><\/em><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><b>\u201cLet the peace that comes from Christ rule in your hearts.<\/b><b>\u201d<\/b>There is something powerful about the word <b>rule<\/b>. When relationships become difficult, something is going to influence how we respond.\u00a0 Sometimes it&#8217;s frustration.\u00a0 Sometimes it&#8217;s hurt.\u00a0 Sometimes it&#8217;s our need to be understood\u2026 or to be right.And if we&#8217;re not careful, we can begin rehearsing what someone has done wrong\u2014the words they said, what they failed to do, or all the ways we wish they would change.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">But Paul gives us another invitation:<b>Let the peace of Christ rule. <\/b>And then he adds:<b>Be thankful.<\/b><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">What if gratitude can help us loosen our grip on ourselves\u2014our need to be right, to be heard, or to have our own way\u2014and help us see the <b>whole person<\/b> again? Not ignoring what is difficult. Not pretending hurt isn&#8217;t real. But refusing to allow someone&#8217;s shortcomings to become the whole story we tell ourselves about them.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Jesus showed us a love that does not insist on itself, but willingly lays itself down for one another.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Take a moment now to sit with the Lord.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><b>\u25cf<\/b><b>Is there someone whose faults have become easier for you to see than the gift <\/b><b>they are?<\/b><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><b>\u25cf<\/b><b>Is there frustration, hurt, or anger toward someone that you need to surrender <\/b><b>to Jesus today?<\/b><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><b>\u25cf<\/b><b>What might change if the peace of Christ\u2014not your frustration\u2014were allowed <\/b><b>to rule your response to them?<\/b><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Pause<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: left;\">\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><strong>Part 2: Outward Focus<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Now, let&#8217;s consider how gratitude might shape the way we see those God has entrusted to us through ministry. Bring to mind a young person you serve. Maybe it&#8217;s someone you love spending time with. Or perhaps it&#8217;s someone you find more difficult to connect with.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: left;\">In ministry, it can become easy to notice what needs attention.The appointment that was missed. The commitment that wasn&#8217;t followed through on. The behaviour that keeps resurfacing. The choice we wish they hadn&#8217;t made\u2026 or the one we wish they had. These things may need to be addressed. But they are <b>not the whole person<\/b>. The young person we serve are more than their behaviours, their struggles, or the choices they make.<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: left;\"><b>They are deeply loved by God\u2014and worthy of being seen through His eyes.<\/b><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: left;\">\n<p><b>What might gratitude change about the way we see them?<\/b><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\"><b>Can gratitude help us see the person before the behaviour?<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p>Pause<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">Let&#8217;s listen again to the words of Colossians 3:15\u201317. This time, as you listen, hold that young<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">person before the Lord.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p3\" style=\"text-align: center;\"><span class=\"s3\"><b><i>\u2018<\/i><\/b><\/span><i>And let the peace that comes from Christ rule in your hearts. For as members of one<\/i><\/p>\n<p class=\"p3\" style=\"text-align: center;\"><i>body you are called to live in peace. And always be thankful. Let the message about<\/i><\/p>\n<p class=\"p3\" style=\"text-align: center;\"><i>Christ, in all its richness, fill your lives. Teach and counsel each other with all the<\/i><\/p>\n<p class=\"p3\" style=\"text-align: center;\"><i>wisdom he gives. Sing psalms and hymns and spiritual songs to God with thankful<\/i><\/p>\n<p class=\"p3\" style=\"text-align: center;\"><i>hearts. And whatever you do or say, do it as a representative of the Lord Jesus, giving<\/i><\/p>\n<p class=\"p3\" style=\"text-align: center;\"><i>thanks through him to God the Father.<\/i><\/p>\n<p class=\"p4\"><b><i>\u2019<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">\n<p class=\"p1\">As you continue to hold them before the Lord\u2026<\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><b>What is something about this young person that you can thank God for today?<\/b><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><b>Is there a frustration or expectation you need to release so that you can see<\/b><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><b>them more clearly through the eyes of Jesus?<\/b><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><b>How might gratitude change the way you speak to them, pray for them, or walk<\/b><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><b>alongside them this week?<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Pause<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">As we come to the end of our time together, remember that gratitude is more than noticing the<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">blessings around us. It can change the way we see one another.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">When we allow the peace of Christ to rule in our hearts, we can loosen our grip on frustration,<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">make room for gratitude, and choose to respond with love.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><b>May the peace of Christ rule in us, gratitude reshape how we see one another, and love<\/b><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><b>guide how we respond.<\/b><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><b style=\"font-size: 1rem;\">Part 2: Closing Prayer<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We will close with an ancient prayer for God\u2019s peace and protection as we entrust ourselves into His care.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">O God,<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> from whom all holy desires, all good counsels,<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and all just works do proceed:<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> give to your servants that peace<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> which the world cannot give;<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> that our hearts may be set to obey your will;<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and that we, being defended from the fear of our enemies,<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> may pass our time in rest and quietness;<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> through Jesus Christ our Lord.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Amen.<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n<\/div>\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t<\/div>\r\n<\/section>\r\n\n\n<section class=\"y-columned-content white one center  guten-block\" >\r\n\t<div class=\"grid-narrow\">\r\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"y-columned-content--inner\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"y-columned-content--column y-color-responsive-text\"><p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a class=\"button primary\" href=\"https:\/\/yfc.ca\/resources\/epray\/\">Return to ePray<\/a>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 <a class=\"button secondary\" href=\"#top\">Listen to this episode<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t<\/div>\r\n<\/section>\r\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Welcome. 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